Now for a lil seriousity...

“Now let’s think for a moment about this thought. Unforgiveness in the heart produces negative and destructive thoughts in the mind. The Bible tells us as a man thinks in his heart, so is he. I like to say, “And so he becomes!” What you think about and see in your mind comes to pass in time.”

http://www.whm.org.au/blogger/2006/04/unforgiveness-is-destructive.html


People who wrong people are people who can’t forgive people. I like to think that I’m a person who doesn’t wrong people. From time to time I wrong myself but I am not a wronger of people. Therefore I can forgive just as easily as the next non-wronger.

But I’m so hurt by the whole process I’m not sure how long it will take me to get back to feeling about Kathy as I did before. Love may have turned into casual indifference but I was never angry at her before. And I don’t choose to be now.


The thing about forgiveness is that, on our own, we’ve got no hope .